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Thanks to the grace of Almighty God, I reunited with his servant on this one. He is a leader who always protect, provide guidance, encouragement, inspiration, new ideas and fresh. He eko who have leader capable of moving hundreds of thousands of his men. He was a teacher who had an ocean science, which is always ready to be pulled up by their children and like nothing ever runs out.

Currently, he has a wide range of business sectors, including as a supplier and distribution equipment and health products, dozens of acres of ponds, dozens of acres of fields, dozens of boarding houses, shophouses, sales booths in malls, apartments and others. I've tried to count, earnings he could reach USD 1 billion per month. A great achievement for me and most others.

The meeting between me and I told him that under this happened a few years ago, when his income was around Rp 200 million per month. For me, this figure was already not playing enormity. I deliberately did not mention his name, because I publish this story yet to get permission from him. We take the wisdom, yes.

One day, there was a dialogue between me and him in the foyer of a hotel in Bandung. I remember, he advised that he was pleased asked. If asked, it will be described at length. But if we are silent, then he was going to "sleep". Be my thinking to always engage him in conversation. Ask what can I ask.

Until finally I asked in origin, "Sir, it's your time to call it a success. At the very least, more successful than others. Then according to you, what is the secret of your success? "

Unexpectedly he answers this question seriously.

"There are four things you should look," so he began his explanation.

SECRET FIRST

"First. Do not forget your parents, especially your mother. Because the mother is the one who delivered us to this earth. Start of containing 9 months, it was very heavy. Mother gave birth to us with difficulty, painful, lives at stake. Heaven under the heel of the mother. Mother like Pengeran katon (visible God).

Many people now are wrong. The teachers and clerics kissed her hand, while her mother is never. The teachers and clerics worshiped and hailed, given the millions of dollars donated materials, home made, and yet left his mother alone at home or given material but very little. Many people are teachers or kyainya the pilgrimage, but his mother has not dihajikan. It upside down.

Prophet's message: Your mother, your mother, your mom ... and then your father and your teacher.
Blessing blessings God depends on both parents. Collect a thousand clerics to pray. So much prayer mustajabah mother. "He took a breath for a moment.

SECOND SECRET 

"Then the second," he continued. "You have to give. Many are charitable. God promised to repay any money that we spend it with a double. Alms were able to beat the wind. Alms can beat iron. Possessions and alms cleanse our hearts. Alms deliver us from danger. God might reply to our charity with a lot of fortune, health, inevitably we're out of danger, a good family, knowledge, opportunity, and others.

Do not underestimate when a beggar came begging to you. Because that's when you actually opened the door fortune. Give the beggar with a good delivery and a good attitude. If paper money, better give him with paper money, not coins. Chose bills are still good, is not that already crumpled. Hold with two hands, then reached out with an attitude of respect if necessary, looking down (bow). Beggars that you give in this way, will terketuk his heart, 'There has never been a giving and respecting people like this.' So spoken or not, he will pray for you with an abundance of good fortune, health and happiness.

Many people who mistakenly rejected beggar who came to him, and even some who scolded him. Act was tantamount to closing the door his fortune.

On another occasion, when I take a walk with him, he obviously practices what she's saying it. Gave a beggar with a bill of thousands are still good and gave it with two hands with a slight bow. I saw the beggar was shining and how grateful.

THIRD SECRET

"God promises to give us the good fortune of the road which is not unexpected," so he began his explanation for his third secret. "But few people know how to make it happen quickly? Most people just wait. Though it's no way. "

"Right in the Quran there is a verse which roughly means: Those who fear Allah surely held his way out for him and give him the fortune of the street / door unexpectedly", I replied (Surah Ath THALAQ 2-3) .

"Well, want to know how how we get the fortune that unexpectedly? , "He asked.

"Yes, how? 'I replied. I think quite the devoted, running his commands and avoid His prohibitions, then God will send the fortune that came to us.

"You have to help people. If there are people who need help, when I see people having trouble, you directly help! "He answers it makes me think hard. "Times like that, you become a windfall windfall for him. Then the reply is certainly God will give you the fortune that unexpectedly well. "

"Although it was a rich man," asked me.

"Yes, although it's a rich man, at one point he even need help. Maybe his wallet was missing, his car tires may leak, or anything. So if you come across it and you can help, please help. "

"Although the people who pretend? Right now a lot of people on foot, came to our house, pretending to ask for donations of houses of worship, or pretend not to eat, but it was just a sham. Donations are said to house of worship, in fact he eats himself, "I asked again.

"Yes, even though people pretend it's just like that," he replied. "If you ask, he actually did not like doing the lying. He was frustrated because he could not work or do not have a job right. He was needed to eat, but his mind was a dead end. Ultimately that's what he can do. About it later, leave it to God. God is judging his actions, and intentions of God and giving your reply. "

FOURTH SECRET

Well, more interesting, here. I nod. Actually I did not think my question was perfunctory fruitful answers so serious and long. Now living a secret, out of four secrets as he said earlier.

"The fourth ya, Mas," he started. "Do not mock women".

Hm ... this makes me think hard. What he meant. Do we make an appointment with a female friend, then do not we keep it just? Or do not let her wait? Like in the movies alone.

"The point is this. You do have wives, or husbands. It is your life partner, either in hard times and happy. When you leave home to make a living, he's at home waiting and praying for your safety and success. He participated with or near you in your difficult time, mediocre income, food and clothes on their backs, he accompany you and support your efforts to succeed. "

"So," I can not wait to see the continuation point.

"A lot of people then when successful, more money, have a job, then get married again. Or start playing a woman (or a man playing, for the women). Both married again openly, let alone secretly, it hurt your spouse. Remember, the first spouse to accompany you in times of difficulty, support and pray for your success. But when you get hit it, you leave it."

Oh yeah ... lesson monogamy, I thought to myself.

"A lot of people forget that. Once it was so great people, lots of money, then look for another wife. Married again. Felt "justice" the Qur'an says only a material justice. Be chaotic household. When it was abandoned, not willing to be his life partner. Eventually the money runs out for the costs here and there. Many people who fall for this kind of thing. He forgot that his partner was actually involved had a hand in his success, "he continued.

This I have proved myself, every time I came to his house in Waru Sidoarjo, I see he has 1 wife, 2 boys and 1 girl.

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